⇋ Best Walking on Eggshells: Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents to read ↛ Kindle Ebook Author Jane Isay ∍ ⇋ Best Walking on Eggshells: Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents to read ↛ Kindle Ebook Author Jane Isay ∍ Jane Isay, the editor who discovered Mary Pipher s Reviving Ophelia and commissioned Rachel Simmons Odd Girl Out, has written an insightful, compelling book about the delicate lifelong bond between grown kids and their parents Isay traveled across the country and interviewed nearly 75 people including dozens of parents and grown children , and Walking on Eggshells shares moving stories that will help parents and grown children build strong new adult relationships with one another We asked Po Bronson, author of Why Do I Love These People , to read Isay s book and give us his take Read his review below Daphne Durham Guest Reviewer Po Bronson Po Bronson is the author of the brilliant bestseller What Should I Do with My Life , the powerful and poignant Why Do I Love These People , a hilarious novel called The Bombadiers, and The Nudist on the Late Shift, a collection of true stories about Silicon Valley When we tell family stories, we so often focus on the beginning and the end The beginning is the two decades of our childhood and adolescence, and it s been the favorite narrative arc ever since Freud What happens in your childhood does not stay in your childhood it haunts the rest of your life In the last decade, we ve suddenly heard stories of the end narratives constructed around a parent s death, and often the year spent caring for that parent on their deathbed Because these are the conventional narratives, they often distract our attention from the many decades in between We barely even have a terminology for these years and the terms we employ sound like oxymorons Adult Children, Parents of Adults There s an old saying you can choose your friends, but you can t choose your family In the beginning this is true we re in the care of our parents, like it or not And in the ending this is also true they re in our care, like it or not But in the long middle, this isn t so true The middle is a period where both child and parent can keep their distance, if they prefer And often do, harboring resentment We too often accept that this is just the way it is She s never going to change is a common, fatalist refrain In Walking on Eggshells, Jane Isay shines a much needed light on these years With a graceful respect for the families she investigates, she tells their stories how they lost their love, and how they regained it Isay covers the many ways families develop resentment, and the many techniques they employed to make peace She shows that small changes in routine can go a long way to restoring goodwill But it s not a self help book it s of a literary contemplation, and we learn by inspiration than by emulation Though this book addresses the parents directly, I suspect it will be passed back and forth, between generations, in many a family Po BronsonStarred Review. As baby boomer parents age, they re discovering the empty nest syndrome is nothing compared to what happens when their kids graduate from college and start leading lives of their own To a generation famous for being involved in every aspect of their children s lives, it can be upsetting to find that those children no longer need or welcome your advice How does one parent children who no longer need parenting Publishing veteran Isay, an editor and mother of two grown sons, interviews scores of parents and adult children of all ages to see how they are doing it The stories are heartwarming, and Isay recounts them with intelligence and compassion What does she find Nothing Ann Landers hasn t already told us Mainly don t give advice make friends with your children s significant others and remember that love heals The most compelling story is Isay s own One wishes it were the centerpiece of the book rather than tacked on as an epilogue Her experience is an example of her most interesting discovery children are quick to forgive and often the ones who take the initiative in forging a new brand of closeness between themselves and their parentsa closeness that is best described as adult Mar 27 Copyright Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc All rights reserved. Wet Wild Coloricon Eye Shadow Walking On Eggshells No Buy Wet b, Ounce on FREE SHIPPING qualified orders Senior elder care products for home health equipment assistive devices aging parents caregivers Improvement in daily living activities safety older adults Wnw Eyeshadow Trio Si Sizeoz Color Icon Silent Treatment ozJane Jane Isay Families are the survival mechanism of human species Relationships within our families constant motion We complicated beings, and we experience emotions that make peace conflict Isay rjbf is author three previous books Secrets Lies, about family secrets revelations Eggshells, their adult children Author Goodreads Walk around block Forget work Play with dog or a child Take your mind off it sleep well The morning may bring surprise Walking Navigating Delicate Relationship explores both sides this confusing intergenerational dilemma wise, witty, altogether wonderful book drawn from experiences all stages life Home Facebook added new photos to album Books July March marked publication my fourth book, Unconditional Love A Guide To Joys And Challenges Of Being Grandparent Today Aaron Family Jewish Community Center Dallas children, Profiles People named Find friends Facebook Log sign up connect friends, people you know In Sign Up See Photos Pasig SALES LADY Quezon City, Philippines Isaya Ministry Education Sumbawanga Dodoma, Tanzania has been an editor over forty years She discovered Mary Pipher s Reviving Ophelia , commissioned Patricia O Connor bestselling Woe Is I Rachel Simmons Odd Girl Out edited such nonfiction classics as Praying Sheetrock Friday Night Lights Walking on Eggshells: Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents

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